Sex toys and your partner

If you reading this you most probably want to use an adult toy with your partner, but you are not sure how to bring up the conversation. Well to start off, you need to keep the relationship truthful en open. Before you do anything, you need to make sure your partner knows what you like and what is dislikes when it comes to something sexual. This can be small things or even big problems that you need to overcome before you try out something like purchasing an sex toy. You may find it difficult to talk about it as it may embarrass you. You may have an open mind but the partner would maybe see it as a betrayal or even think he or she may not be good enough in bed.

Most men and women biggest fear has always been that they may not be enough in bed for their partner and thus they now need something more. If they are new to the idea they will immediately feel threatened by the notion. The reason why they feel this way is because they do not understand it. Whatever you do is to reassure her or him that this is not the case. You would have to set the tone and how your partner will react and what you answer will be if they start peppering you with questions.

Explain your desires

We all know it is difficult to communicate your desires when you talk to your partner about sex. You don’t want to come over as oversexed or some kind of the weird sex freak.  Before anything becomes an issue you need to ensure him or what her you intentions. Buy purchasing an adult sex aid, you will actually improve your relationship. If you are a guy, you need to make her understand that you respect her boundaries and you will revere her all the way. It is vitally important in order to enjoy the toys both parties must communicate.

Wait for best Time

There is an old saying that goes like this “Timing is everything”. It is important that both parties are in a good mood. Don’t talk about if either party is in a bad mood or after a long day at work. Also try to avoid having the conversation before or after sex. Find a comfortable area in private, make sure that when you have the sex toy conversation that they understand that they are not the reason why need an adult toy. If you can avoid the issue about her or him being inadequate, the job is half done.

If all goes well, first thing you need to do is set boundaries, like the size of toy. Start small so both parties can become comfortable to the idea. It’s a good idea to make the purchase together and any future purchases. If you buy the adult toy online and receive it by post, make sure that you both are present you open the package. Before using the toy, read the instruction. For newbies it’s important to also buy a bottle lubricant so when using the toy it goes in smoothly.

So in conclusion, you need to make sure you partner understand that there is nothing wrong getting or using an adult toy. Make sure they realize that its not men in long grey overcoats that sits in back alleys using sex toys. These days people of every facet of live is using an adult aid to develop their erotic play.